I'm going to talk to you about a couple of things and if you have any questions along the way I wish that you would put them in the comments.
I normally don't ask for this but the method to my madness is that I want to give back to you. I want to give you some answers on some things that maybe are troubling to you or maybe that you're unaware of. that you don't know how to do and maybe we can capitalize on my years of experience over the past 42 years being an entrepreneur and maybe I can help you.
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I do want to tell you about something that I think could really help you - there are two main culprits that can destroy your future success. One is ISOLATION and the other one is SELF-DOUBT. The reason it matters today is that we were designed to be in the community. We weren't designed to be alone, we're designed to be around a lot of people.
I've discovered that when you're around other people, it really eliminates loneliness and low self-esteem. Oftentimes, we have social anxiety, and being around other people eliminates a lot of that. Listen, I've worked with a lot of people for a lot of years and I do understand the value of being in a community, being around other people.
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Life Coaching,
Character,
Masterminds,
Balance,
Community,
Relationships,
Success,
Significance,
Priorities,
Tips,
Move Forward,
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Vision Leader,
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Connections,
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Mindset,
Insecuriy
We now live in a society today that is absolutely taken over with fear and insecurity. I want to talk to you about that just for a second. Listen, fear's not necessarily a bad thing. It was created to help protect us to some degree, now we shouldn't crawl underneath our desk in a fetal position and be afraid all the time. There's a certain level of fear that's healthy!
Through the course of my career for 42 years, there's been an element of fear and insecurity - depending on the circumstances and the situations that you're placed in but one of the things that I have found that has increased my fear and insecurity is my willingness to go it alone, to be independent.
The truth is we all need each other! That's where the success happens, is when we get involved in interdependence. We can take our lives and our business to the next level!
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Family,
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Wisdom,
Be The Light,
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Risks,
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Pressure,
Insecuriy
Do you want to create a huge impact in someone else's life? Tiny gestures are all we need. Go over and above the minimum requirement.
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Be The Light,
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Guide,
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Execution,
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Authenticity,
fingerprint,
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Joy,
Truth,
Honesty,
Habit,
Purpose,
Value,
Journey,
Connections
20 years ago when my friend, Bob Warren, started mentoring me and coaching me he taught me to listen better. I want to tell you it is difficult! We would go to restaurants and we would talk. I'd be looking around the room to see who was in there, who was coming in and he would say, “listen, you got to focus, you've got to make eye contact with the person you're talking to and not be thinking about what you're going to say next. You need to pay attention to what they're saying because people only remember how you make them feel and you make them feel unimportant when you don't pay attention to what they're saying.
I'm going to tell you, I'll just be very honest and transparent with you that was difficult for me. For a long long time, it was like every time you were talking I was thinking man I got something to say. I can match that i can one-up! I can't wait till they take a breath so I can interject! I want to tell you it takes a lot of discipline and a lot of wherewithal in order to withhold the things that you want to say! Listen, what they say is important!
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Character,
Balance,
Relationships,
Success,
Significance,
Priorities,
Commitment,
Discipline,
Clarity,
Development,
Listen,
Decisions,
Crossroads,
Encourage,
Encouragement,
Guide,
Advice,
Influence,
Authenticity,
fingerprint,
Truth,
Obstacles,
Expectation,
Legacy,
Habit,
Purpose,
Audience,
Journey,
Connections
