Celebrate your kid, regardless. Let him feel that he is loved unconditionally. Let him feel that he is an amazing kid. I promise you here's what will happen. You'll grow up young men and young women not thinking they have to earn your love, not thinking that when they do good they get rewarded, when they do bad to get punished. So their whole identity is tied up into performance and I want to tell you that's miserable. We got to learn that our identity is not tied up into our possessions or into our financial wherewithal or our titles.
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How are you as a father? How do you interact with your kids? Are you verbally abusive? How do you instill discipline in your home? I want you to really think through the way you discipline your kids. The environment that you're creating at home, like are they excited when you get home? Are they like looking forward to it or they like run and jump up in your arms or they like run into the room and hiding or they're coward and down and they don't want anything to do with you because dad's in a bad mood?
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Hey guys! What is getting in your way today from your success? What is it that's holding you back this morning? Is it resources? Is it people? Is it incentive? Is it drive? Is it fear? What is holding you back from being successful at what you're trying to accomplish? We've got to look at an obstacle from a different perspective. Like, I had a guy recently call me. He had a business idea and it was amazing and he said, "I only got one problem." He said, "I don't have any money." I said, "Well let's talk through that. So we did. He came back a few weeks later and he said, "'ve got a guy that's willing to give me the money but he wants 40% of the deal. I'm not going to do that!" I said, "So you'd rather have a 100% of nothing than a 60% of something?" And he "Well, you got a good point." We need to be thinking outside the box, persistent, committed, and consistent. Obstacle is the way sometimes.
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I want to tell you something. I hear guys every single day because I coach, talk about the things that they do for six weeks or 90 days and it's not working and they abandoned. I met an an old lady the other day in the YMCA. As I observe her, she kept going back and forth. I don't know how old she was and I waited until she got finished and then I went up to her and I said, "Man! You are so inspirational to me and I want to talk to you for a minute?" She said, "I can't hear you that well speak up." So started speaking up to her and she was just a sweetest old lady I've ever seen in my life and I said, "How long have you been exercising?" She said, "I exercise six days a week." I said, "Man, that is amazing you've been doing that very long as she says every day for 17 years. It was so inspirational to me since she said that and I said, Man, I hope when I'm your age I'm able to do the same thing!" She said, "You don't want to know how old I am." I said, "Would you tell me", and she said, "I'm 87". This lady does her exercise every single day except Sunday. I thought, that's discipline! Where are we missing it in regards to our business career not implementing some strategies like the senior adult lady does at 87 years old. Six days a week she goes to the YMCA and works out! I'll tell you looking at her I think she's a better shape than I am and the reason is because she's disciplined! We can't let things get in the way. We can't let obstacles get in the way. I want to encourage you guys to be disciplined. If it's important, you'll do it!
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Are you always working too much? Are you making dollars but you're miserable? Do you got the money but not happy? Are you not having good relationship with the people you love? Do this with me! Put the devices at rest. Be with your family. Go out and have fun! We need some margins in our lives. God says we need a day of rest. And I am challenging you today, have a day of rest!
Topics:
Life Coaching,
Motivation,
Accountability,
Coaching,
Business Coaching,
Masterminds,
Family,
Balance,
Career,
Community,
Relationships,
Success,
Significance,
Priorities,
Tips,
Parenting,
Commitment,
Persistent,
Consistent,
Move Forward,
Blueprint,
Preparation,
Integrity