Have you been in a situation where you wanted to throw up? That you are sick in your stomach? Because you not addressing an issue right away when you know you should?
I am encouraging you today to deal with it, whatever it is. It is not going to get better. It is going to get worse. Not only it will get worse, your creativity will be squelched. You won't be able to think of anything but that situation.
Most of the time, it's not as bad as you make it in your mind. Historically, I found out it's really not that way. Quite honestly, it could be the best thing that will ever happen to you and the other person, if you deal with it. So you can get it off your mind. So it doesn't keep you hostage. So it doesn't keep you from the things you need to do.
Today, deal with that difficult situation. It's better to be proactive rather than reactive, regardless of what you are dealing with. I know you can deal with it!
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Are you the guy that has ""it"? Or are you the one who sucks the life out of everyone? We got to be careful with how we present ourselves. Don't bring that victim mentality. Let's adjust our attitude.
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We're reading that book John Gottman's book, Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work, and, I want to tell you, that book is absolutely outstanding. At first I didn’t want to read but in chapter 2, John Gottman asked a question that I never really thought about. He said, “What is your secret weapon for defusing arguments?” I started thinking about that a little bit. I want to ask you today. Do you take things too serious? I mean probably, you are arguing about some dumb stuff in your relationship. We've got to do things to defuse these situations. I’d like to ask you again, what is your secret weapon? What is that thing that you're using to defuse some of those arguments or bad situations or disagreements that you're having? So just think about it. I don't know what it is for you? Whatever it is though I would encourage you to defuse it faster than not. Figure out what that thing is that you can do to defuse those bad situations.
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Let tell you what I mean on this videos title. I am not going to teach you any tricks, tips, hacks or anything today. I just like you to enjoy today. I have read a book some years ago and I did not agree with everything that book said but it's titled "Enjoy The Now". And I think often times we tend to do just that. I know, often times I've been guilty of planning for the future. I am only thinking about retirement. If things get better, I am going to do this and that. But you know, if I think back, ten or fifteen years ago, today is that day that I was planning for! You know, we were not promised tomorrow. Right, we were not promised for anything but today. Simply take a moment today and think, "Am I investing on the right things? Am I spending time with my family, significant other? Am I really enjoying my time with my peers? This is the day! If you choose to, we can enjoy today!
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If you are wrestling with a decision right now, be on the side of your family. I promise you the long-term benefits will outweigh the short-term gains.
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Life Coaching,
Motivation,
Accountability,
Coaching,
Character,
Business Coaching,
Community,
Relationships,
Success,
Significance,
Priorities,
Tips,
Commitment,
Persistent,
Consistent,
Move Forward,
Blueprint,
Preparation,
Integrity,
Discipline,
Clarity
